Come to the Success

Isn’t it………….?

Marriage or achievements?

Ek bat jo mere zihan me khalbli machaye huwy hai k hamarey society me ek yeh bohat trend aam hai k, Shadi krny k liye Girl (Larki) parhi likhi honi chahiye, aur Larki waley kehty hian k Larka parha likha hona chahiye. Is k sath sath yeh bat ko main issue banaya jata hai k AGE ZIADA NA HO chahy larka ho ya larki ho.

Ek bat ki samajh nhi aati k agar ap log chahty hain k larky aur larki ka educated hona lazmi hai, yeh hona chahiya, wo hona chahiye, to uski umar ki to thori to ho nhi sakti. Qun k agat education complete krni hai to time to lagey ga he na. thory years ki to bat ho nhi sakti.

Agar ek banda larka ya larki Education complete kr rhy hain, they are going to achieve something, they are thinking forward, they want to become a strong person to face/ solve the problems, to compete the world, society. It is only possible, when one will be the Educated.

To log khas kr to I mean Larkion (girls) ko to yehi kehty hian is ko education dilani, warna iski age ziada ho jaye gi, shaadi k kabil nhi rahy gi. What nonsense ……! Yeh is waja se hota hai mere khiyal me k parents to itny educated nhi hoty, agar hoty hain to negative sochty hain. Kitni ghalat tradition hai logon me….!

Ek banda jo life me kuch achieve krna chahta hai to usy uska right diya jaye, Qun usey us k haq se mehroom kiya jata hai? Kya shadi k ilawa aur koi kam nhi hai, aur koi maqsad nhi hai diniyan me.

Parents ek limited age fix krdety hain k isy (Larki ya Larka) ko yahan tak education hasil krni hai bas is k bad he/she should stop.

Parents ka b is me bohat amal-dakhal hai, unhy to apni aulad ko ek successful  banana chahiye na k un ko yeh bat batani chahiye k bas thori dair ha tumhari shadi kr deni hai.

Bary bary aged male hotey hai apni age ko dekhty nhi, newspaper me add dety hain k 40 years male, business man, ko ek BEAUTIFUL, WELL EDUCATED, 17 BPS ki employee, 25 YEARS age ho, ka rishta required hai.

Kya combination banaty hain 40 – 25,    banda pochy k 25 years me bhala well educated kesy ho sakta hai.

Ek ahm bat yeh hai hum logon ko ISLAMIC TEACHINGS (islami taalimaat) se awareness nhi hai. Hum log ALLAH AUR US K RASOOL (PEACE BE UPON HIM) k ahkamaat k mutabik zindagi guzarni chahiye.

HAZRAT MUHAMMAD (Peace be upon him) Ne bhee jo shadiyan kin un sab me bhee hamarey liye hidayet hai, UMM-O-HAAT-UL-MOMENEEN ki ages b different thin.

Me is topic pe is liye bat kr raha hun k, Parents ko chahiye k agar koi bacha life me kuch achieve kr raha hai to usko motivate krna chahiye, support krni chahiye na usko discourage krni chahiye. Qun k Duniya me koi nhi chahta k us se koi dosra us se ziada achieve kr ly magar sirf ek rishta hai aesa bas , aur who hain Parents. PARENTS he chahtey hain k unki aulad unse ziada tarakki krey.

Ek bat hai k agar aulad ya koi bacha negative activitives me hissa lene lag gya hai, ya negative route pe chalny laga hai to kisi practical work me dalna chahiye, na k usko force kr k Education me dala jaye. Qun k na to wo taleem hasil krey ga aur time k sath money b zaiya krey ga. Parents ko aulad k sath friendly behave krna chahiye Qun k jo bat bachey ne bahir doston k sath krni hai wo bat wo apne parents k sath he discuss krey.

So,

First deserve then desire. We must work hard and with this PRAY TO ALLAH, FOLLOW THE TEACHINGS OF QURAAN-E-MAJEED. SUCCESS HAMAREY KADAM CHOOMEY GI.

ALLAH HUM SAB K DINIYAN ME AUR AAKHIRAT ME DARJAAT BULAND FERMAYE(AAMEEN)

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