Rights of Relatives

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RIGHTS OF RELATIVES.

WHY WE ARE VIOLATING THE RIGHTS OF RELATIVES?          N

There is no sincerity and love among the people/ relatives. While this is the order of ALLAH that do good to the relatives. I think this is the extreme of selfishness. With this, in the race of life we are forgetting the etiquettes/ manners to live, one couldn’t see anything expect for himself.

We are unknown to the meanings of Rights of the people ( Hakook-ul-ibaad), and this is all due to the access of Materialism, Selfishness.

"And give to the relative his right." [Alqur’aan: Soorah al-Israa' 17:26]
Allaah is the greatest also says:
"And worship Allaah alone, and do not set-up any partner to Him in worship,
and be kind and good to the parents, and to the relatives." [Soorah an-Nisaa 4:36]

Being a MUSLIM to follow the orders of ALLAH and ALLAH’S MESSENGER MUHAMMAD (PBUH) is our first priority. All those are imposed on us.

The book of ALLAH (QURAAN- MAJEED) is also tell us and also encourage us to do good with relatives and people.

"Indeed Allaah created the creation, until he was finished doing so, the Rahm: (womb/ties of relation) stood-up and said: Is this the place of one who seeks refuge in you from those who severe and cut ties with me. So Allaah said: Yes, Indeed Would it please you that I keep ties with those who keep ties with you, and cut-off ties with those who cut-off lies with you? So the Rahm': said: Yes, indeed' So Allaah said: Then this is for you. Then Allaah's Messenger (sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam) said: "Recite if you wish: "Would you then, if you were given the authority, cause corruption in the land, and cut-off lies of relations. They are those upon whom is the curse of Allaah, so that He makes them deaf and blinds them." {~Soorah Muhammad 47::22-23~}

By following the teachings of the Qur’aan Majeed we must learn the teachings/ messages (HADEES) of PROPHET MUHAMMAD (PBUH).

In this reference our national poet Dr. Allama Iqbal said that:

KI MUHAMMAD SE WAFA TO HUM TEREY AHIN

YEH JAHAN CHEEZ HAI KYA…LOH-O-KALAM TEREY HAIN.

The success in the life and after the death is only possible if we follow the teachings of ALLAH AND HIS MESSENGER HAZRAT MUHAMMAD (PEACE BE UPON HIM).

HAZRAT MUHAMMAD (PBUH) SAYS THAT:

“WHOSEVER BELIEVES IN ALLAH AND THE LAST DAY LET HIM KEEP TIES OF RELATIONS”.

Now days the people are making relations to those who are having good wealth and are sound parties, there is no value of Human Life, Relation, Humanity instead of Money and Richness. It was GOD, When nothing was, and it will be GOD when something is not.

ALLAH  is the creator of everything, and Whoever is born is tied into relationships,  Like Parents, Brother/sisters, grandparents, Lovers and Friends, and both of those there is also an other relation that is the Hostility(dushmani),…I am saying this because this is also a type of relationship, and  it is occurred in the result of angriness , misunderstanding, misconception and some other negative thoughts. We should thing positively to spread love, be sympathetic to others, love with our parents, family and also remember your relatives/ beloved ones to join your happiness.

We are also breaking up with our relatives because of jealousy and hatred has been settled in our heart and soul. We hate others to develop and do not want to work our self. We just need to work, and the aim should be kept in mind, then pray to ALLAH Then success will kiss step.

**Hazrat Anas (R.A) Relates that the Prophet Muhammad (Peace be Upon Him) said: “Whoever wants an increase in his sustenance and that the marks of his feet remain for a long time in the world (To Live Long) he should be kind and helpful to his relatives.

** Abdullah Ibn-e-Amr Relates that :Prophet Muhammad (Peace be Upon Him) said: “ The waasil (one who keeps the ties of relations) is not the one who merely does so out of reciprocation. Rather; the waasil is the one who even when the relatives cut-off him, yet he still maintains ties with them.”

** Also some time a man asked:: O MESSENGER OF ALLAH: I have relatives with whom I maintain ties of relations, yet they cutoff from me. I treat them kindly yet they treat me in an evil manner. And I am forbearing and patient with them; yet they behave rudely and ignorantly towards me. The PROPHET MUHAMMAD (PBUH) SAID:

“if the situation is as you say, then it is as if you are filling their mouths with san. And ALLAH will continue to aid and support you as long as you continue doing what you are doing.”

** do good as much as possible, and do not expect reward from others for that you do…. !

“ALLAH IS THE BEST TO REWARD TO HIS SLAVE.”

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